Is Self Sucking Gay?

[bugnstein]

I have been SSing for almost 2 yrs. I have never had nor do I now have any sexual, emotional, or physical attraction towards men. However, the thought of sucking another mans cock does not bother me anymore. SSing is not Gay. it's self pleasure.

[theouroboros]

Are you having sex with someone else when you suck your own cock (assuming it's just you, alone in the room)? If you're not having sex with anyone other than yourself, how can it be gay, straight, or anything other than autoerotic?

Sexual orientation is an inborn tendency to want to have sex with either no one (asexual), with the opposite sex (heterosexual), with the same sex (homosexual) or both sexes (bisexual).

Self-sucking is basically oral masturbation. QED.

[aleingang69]

Thanks theouroboros

I agree with you, but I think the word "tendency" is important there. I believe most of us are born with a tendency toward one orientation but - we're men and we want to get off so those lines can get very blurry very fast

A lot of truth in the old joke: "What's the difference between a straight man and a gay man? Usually about 6 beers"

Al

[swallowingmycum]

Nope.

Even though I can't SS myself I have been cumming in my own mouth for almost 14 years now. For me I've become curious, I love watching BJ and bukkake videos of women having loads of semen ejaculate into their mouths, gay BJ videos aren't ever as good as the hetero ones.

Watching a cock ejaculate is so erotic, and because I enjoy the taste and swallow my own cum, and know how pleasureable it is when us guys climax, I'd like to feel a guy cum in my mouth at least once. I think male ejaculation is such a graphic and erotic act, especially when we can see and taste the orgasm, or watching someone else have a guy cum in their mouth.

I've probably conditioned myself into it. Was never on my mind beyond a few years back but never had to courage to carry it out because of STI's.

Anyhow, women are way more sexy and attractice. But a cock cumming in a mouth is so erotic.

[theouroboros]

Lose the inhibitions.

It comes down to a simple question. Do you want to suck cocks or just your own cock? If you have no inclination to go down on another man (or any other sex act), no matter how much you like drinking from your own fountain, you're straight.

If you really think about it, autofellatio is just oral masturbation.

[theouroboros]

Lose the inhibitions.

It comes down to a simple question. Do you want to suck cocks or just your own cock? If you have no inclination to go down on another man (or any other sex act), no matter how much you like drinking from your own fountain, you're straight.

If you really think about it, autofellatio is just oral masturbation.

Oh, I just noticed I already posted here! Whoops.

[hot selfer23]

just cum down ur throat if not save it and drink it later

[swallowingmycum]

If I could suck my own and feel it pulsate all that cum into my mouth, I'd be more than happy enough. I'd really prefer if I could just to suck my own. As I can't it's something I'd like to experience once, and if I have to use another guys cock instead of my own to experience that then that's what I'll probably end up doing.

Lose the inhibitions.

It comes down to a simple question. Do you want to suck cocks or just your own cock? If you have no inclination to go down on another man (or any other sex act), no matter how much you like drinking from your own fountain, you're straight.

If you really think about it, autofellatio is just oral masturbation.

[Ziggurat]

When you're alone in your room... Honestly... Who cares!

[fowshe82]

More than homosexual I think he is more bisexual, at least for me it is like that. Even though I watch many self fellatio videos among the good gay sex porn sites I visit on allgaypornsites, unfortunately I have never managed to do it. But I like to suck the male sex and equally I like to lick the female sex and have sex with both genders. So if I could suck it myself (maybe!) I wouldn't feel gay but bisexual.

[Polevaulter69]

I was getting into swapping oral with other guys when I was an early teen, several years before I started self-sucking, so I can’t speak to the question of whether selfing predisposes you to becoming gay or bisexual because of my opposite personal experience. I consider myself straight…-ish, but I also tend to go along with what I like to call “opportunistic bisexual encounters” when they present themselves and I do still have an old high school friend that I swap head with occasionally. When we hook up neither one of us feels gay about it or even apply any sort of label to our relationship at all other than “friends” because we’ve been doing it for so long. I will say that self-sucking does seem to keep me familiar, motivated, excited about, and comfortable with the concept of pleasuring an erect penis in my mouth, but applying causation to that is another entirely distinct set of individualized and unique factors that would have be considered I would think.